David
‘In the remains of Safed there was no point in shedding tears. In every tent, someone had survived with only a memory of a soft cheek or a gentle touch.’
‘It is a matter of considerable sadness that on that fateful day I made the wrong decisions. I have lived with a feeling of guilt for all these years.’
Anna
‘If we’re to be married I need to ask you.... I have to know. Do you like onions?’
‘...but for Anna it was a disaster, what she always referred to as the ‘fiasco of my wedding day.’
Rachel
‘I couldn’t take my eyes off the lapels and the buttons as I was trying so hard not to look at his face. My frock had a close fitting bodice. It was fastened by hooks and eyes at the back.’
‘I looked up at him. His eyes were sparkling and he was so clearly happy at the thought of this grand event that I felt an immense rush of pity and guilt sweeping over me. I remembered what he had said when he asked me to marry him: “We’ll have a better life together”.
Laurent
'But how can you stay with him, when your heart feels like this for me?’
Nathan
‘Clothes don’t matter. Shoes are what people look at. Educated people don’t have dirty shoes.’
‘Nathan was following a train of thought that would lead him to explain why he never wanted to go to Bournemouth.’
‘It was only after his marriage that Nathan had felt able to talk about his sister’s disappearance. He relived that morning in 1910 and then he never spoke of it again.’
Dina
‘They only make one kind of pastry, called pasteis de nata. They are the most delicious things I have ever eaten. Three or four aren’t quite enough but five are just too much’.
‘I opened the telegram slowly and read each word several times. It dropped from my hand and I collapsed on the floor.’
‘I believed that if enough tears drained from my body, there would be nothing left and I would die too.’
‘In some moments I feel that I have always lived on the periphery of life. The good things always seemed to be happening to someone else.’
‘I blame myself for never coming to terms with my loss. It affected the whole family.’
The narrator
’Immediately after a death, close relatives are obliged to perform Keri’a, the rending of a garment.’
‘An object - like the silver teapot - can be handed from one generation to another. We have no control over the genes that we pass on, but we have the power to nurture an inclination towards sadness or happiness.’
‘Memories deceive us: in our mind an event may seem real - but how much of it is embellished with the telling, diminished by shame or embarrassment, or even overheard in conversation and accepted as true?’